Maid Of Honor

Maid Of Honor

What Does A Maid Of Honor Do?
The scope of the maid of honor’s role in the wedding depends upon (1) how much responsibility she is willing to take on, and (2) how much responsibility the bride is willing to delegate. Usually the maid of honor is chosen because she is 1 of the bride’s very closest friends, and her job description as maid of honor is similar to her activities as a friend.
Aide-De-Camp
The maid of honor does much more than simply walk down the aisle ahead of the bride and stand beside her during the ceremony. She is the “highest ranking” personal assistant to the bride during the wedding preparations. The maid of honor shoulders some large responsibilities, such as hosting the bridal shower and bachelorette party, and helping to choose the bridesmaid’s dresses.
But she is also there just to be supportive of the bride, to act as a friend and confidante, and to help her in ways both great and small. Throughout the weeks and months of wedding planning, the maid of honor is involved every step of the way, from choosing a dress and wedding location to helping wrap favors and set up for the reception.
Party Hostess
2 of the larger responsibilities of the maid of honor are hosting the bridal shower and the bachelorette party. As 1 of the bride’s closest friends, the maid of honor is the ideal candidate to host these gatherings. She knows best what type of party the bride will enjoy, and what types of gifts are most suitable for the bride’s taste. Because the bridal shower and bachelorette party are aspects of the wedding preparation the bride usually has little control over, she’ll have the pleasure of not stressing about them. She delegates these duties to her maid of honor, and rests assured that her friend will handle them admirably.
Wardrobe Consultant
Many times the maid of honor plays a key role in selecting dresses for the wedding. She ordinarily chooses her own dress for the wedding from a selection provided by the bride. Once the color and style of the maid of honor’s dress has been selected, she works hand-in-hand with the bride to choose the bridesmaids’ dresses. Their style and color will complement the maid of honor’s dress, while taking into consideration what looks best on each of the bridesmaids. The maid of honor often assists the bride in choosing her own wedding dress.
Adviser And Confidante
The wedding day is understandably hectic for the maid of honor. Although she has supported the bride throughout the planning process, her most important responsibilities take place on the actual day of the wedding. Besides standing at the altar beside her friend, the most important role of the maid of honor this day is to keep the bride calm and to handle any last-minute problems that may arise.
Angel-In-Chief
Like most things in life, few weddings go exactly as planned, and it is the maid of honor’s duty to be sure that any problem does not upset the bride. Emergency supplies the maid of honor should keep on hand include: extra stockings, lipstick in the bride’s color, tissues, safety pins and hairpins. These can come in handy if the bride has any last-minute trouble with her attire, hair or makeup. The maid of honor plays the important role of ensuring that the bride looks her best throughout the day.
Counselor And Friend
When all is said and done, the most significant role of the maid of honor is to be a friend to the bride. The planning and preparations, and the actual wedding itself can be very stressful and emotional for the bride. What the bride needs more than anything else during this time is someone who will offer a sympathetic ear and practical advice. This, then, is the most important function of the maid of honor.

I will admit that being a photographer in Las Vegas has given me a skewed vision of wedding chapels

I will admit that being a photographer in Las Vegas has given me a skewed vision of wedding chapels

Las Vegas chapels, of course, are the antithesis of this. In some ways, they actually seemed to pride themselves on their phoniness. Las Vegas wedding chapels are almost unreal. Some of them have gigantic, ornamental organs that don’t play – mere props to create an impressive, Gothic image. Other ones are set up to look like ancient Egypt, or perhaps a woodland scene complete with neon flashing trees. Basically, modern American weddings have become something much different than what they used to be. Rather then symbols of lasting commitment, they are journeys into fantasy. It is no wonder that so few marriages last.

Of course, as a wedding photographer, I am definitely a part of it. Wedding photography, after all, has nothing to do with capturing reality, or even personality. Because images of beauty have become more and more standardized, good wedding photographs should be digitally edited until they most closely resemble conventional standards of beauty. Granted, there are some couples that want a wedding photographer with an artistic touch, but they are fewer and fewer. Just as people want their wedding ceremonies to be held on California beaches, they want their wedding pictures to show them as California beach dwellers – lean, tan, and flawless.

Don’t get me wrong – there is nothing wrong with using a wedding chapel you find beautiful. Wedding chapels should be beautiful. Everything about the day should be beautiful. Even so, however, it is helpful to keep in mind that a wedding ceremony and a wedding party are different things. The ceremony should be quiet and sacred. the party is where you let loose.

When planning a wedding, one of the things that can sneak up on you is finding bridal party gifts

When planning a wedding, one of the things that can sneak up on you is finding bridal party gifts

The main problem that people tend to have is that they overanalyze the gift. They tend to think that it has to be just perfect, and feel that nothing will express how much they are grateful for the participation. This may be true, but bridal party gifts are not meant to meet that feeling, rather give a token of appreciation. Your friendship is what is meant to be the expression of how much you appreciate the person as they are.

There are some wonderful gift options available that meet these criteria wonderfully. Many women and men have decided to take the entire bridal party to the spa for a day of relaxation. Unfortunately, this can easily become very expensive, but if you can afford it the spa is one of the most fantastic bridal party gifts. Some other nice bridal party gifts that are given are bottles of wine with personalized labels, monogrammed key chains or jewelry, monogrammed cigar humidors, or even flowers. The trend lately seems to be to give something personalized, yet get everyone in the bridal party matching gifts.

If you want to go outside of the box with your bridal party gifts, you can choose a specified amount of money to spend and purchase each member a different gift. I have even seen where each person has gotten a different themed gift basket full of their favorite things. These bridal party gifts are fabulous, but you need to make sure you have enough time to truly pull this off and aren’t making much more work for yourself that you are unable to handle. If you have an especially large wedding party, this route may not be the best idea. However, if you only have a few people involved, this may be the perfect way to say thank you.

Again, bridal party gifts are simply tokens of appreciation and are not meant to be the epitome of a gift. Generally the bridal party understands that you have just spent a lot of money on your wedding and will not be expecting a lot in terms of a present. Take some time and make your bridal party gifts meaningful, and that is all that matters.

Bridal Shower Party Advice

Bridal Shower Party Advice

The bridal shower is the prewedding party organized by the bridesmaids or close female friends. Its purpose is to shower the bride with good wishes. Obviously, the bride is the center of attention at the bridal shower. Although it should not matter who is hosting organizing the event, traditionally, family was discouraged from hosting bridal showers, because it may look like they are digging for gifts.

There is no rule on who is to host the shower. The bridesmaids, friends, or family usually hosts it. The place of the party is usually someone’s house, but bridal showers can be held at restaurants. One of the most important aspect of planning a successful bridal shower is to only invite guest who will be invited to the wedding too. Anyone invited to the shower would have every right to be expecting an invitation to the wedding. To avoid embarrassing mistakes, always consult the bride and key decision makers about the guest list.

The bridal shower, just like your wedding, should be on a day that is easy to attend. Therefore, Saturday is probably the best day to have the party. It enables your guests to attend. The bridal shower should be close to the wedding day but not less than a couple of weeks before.

Bridal shower favors are an important part of the event. Some of the most popular bridal shower favors are personalized chocolates, or personalized bath gels. If you have a beach theme bridal shower, your favors can compliment it. For example, dolphin wine stoppers, or seashell candles are very popular beach bridal shower favor ideas.

Written invitations are not mandatory. Most people have an e-mail address, so einvitations may be the most cost effective option.

If the party is at someone’s home, usually finger food is served. Pizza is another popular choice of food. Bridal showers are informal event, and you don’t need to make a big fuss about the food.

Tips And Strategies On How To Plan For A Wedding (5)

Tips And Strategies On How To Plan For A Wedding

Standing at the altar and saying “I do” can be a nerve wracking experience in itself, let alone the planning process for months (or in some cases, years) before the big day. This article offers some tips to help you easily plan your wedding and take your mind off the rest.

When planning your wedding, you should choose a location that will make the wedding memorable and special for you. You do not necessarily have to hold your wedding in a church like everyone else. You can choose to have a beach wedding, a wedding on a cliff overlooking the ocean, or a wedding right in your backyard. Pick a place that will make the event feel that much more special, and look great in pictures!

When you are giving your speech at the wedding, understand that it is okay to show emotions. The stories that you tell will most likely be very emotional, as everyone at the wedding will be expecting you to shed some tears. Let it all out, to show how much each story means to you.

When selecting a make up artist for your wedding, be sure to see the make up that they have done in the past. Do you like the style of the make up? Be sure that it is what you want. You do not want to be an hour before your wedding with a make up artist who does your make up in a way that you dislike.

Instead of going with the original bridal shower, why not share with your significant other and go with a couple’s shower? Think of it as a party you can both plan and enjoy. You can create a theme and have it be more of a dinner or cocktail party. Also, make it coed.

Though the idea may not appeal to you at first, a “like new” wedding dress can really cut your dress budget. Most of the dresses you will find have only been worn once and some sellers require this. You can find and afford much grander options for your dress that you would not have originally considered trying to buy.

Do you want to do something different? Why not plan a wedding far away from home, perhaps on the location of your honey moon? Make sure all the important guests can afford the trip, or provide them with transportation. Traveling together can be a lot of fun, and your wedding will look more like a vacation than a ceremony.

When planning your wedding make sure you stand out the most, but don’t forget to make your bridesmaids look good too. Many bridesmaids love this part of the wedding. Pick a dress that is reasonable in cost, and will be a good fit for everyone in your wedding party to avoid hurt feelings.

This article has provided great wedding planning tips and hopefully you are able to utilize at least a few of them. Through careful planning and thoughtfulness, your wedding will be a day you will always remember. Hurry up and get the planning over with so you can enjoy the special day!

Wedding Reception Music – Top Tips on Making Your Evening Wedding Party Unforgettable

Wedding Reception Music – Top Tips on Making Your Evening Wedding Party Unforgettable

Live music means involvement

A group of wedding guests usually comprises of two separate family groups that are only just beginning to get to know each other. Even within each family, there will perhaps be members who seldom see each other. The bride and groom will probably have separate sets of friends that have not yet had a chance to become really intimate. There’s no two ways about it, in such a situation, live music is an excellent ice-breaker.

A tremendous party involves a great shared release of energy. To complete your special day in an unforgettable way, you’ll want everyone on the dance-floor, laughing and dancing.

Live Music … centre stage

The guys on the stage are going to lead your party. No matter what the style of music, an infectious sense of fun is an essential ingredient in getting a party going. If the band is having fun on stage, so will you on the dance-floor.

You need a band that wants to party as much as you do!

As in any human situation, a happy band of musicians is a well-looked-after one. Carefully think through the logistics of the event beforehand. As a rule of thumb, the larger the band, the longer the set-up time. A six-piece pop-band with a lighting rig can take up to two hours or more to set-up. Make sure the band have enough time to get their equipment in position. If the band has to set-up early and then wait while the wedding breakfast takes place, make sure that you provide a comfortable place for them to go … and that they, too, have some refreshments (a plate of sandwiches and some drinks will usually suffice).

Including perhaps an hour or two’s travelling to and from the gig, then the set-up and break-down, a wedding performance is a long day for the band. To get the very best from them at this important time for you, it’s in your interest to make sure they are comfortable and well cared for.

Let your hair down and boogie

So which way do you want to party the night away? There are lots of options. Hot rhythm is the key to getting everyone out of their seats. Evoke Hollywood glitz and glamour with Swing Jazz, Sinatra-style. A steel band gets the party going with a Caribbean holiday feel. Samba the night away with Brazilian-style Latin Jazz. Jump and jive with R’n’B and Boogie-Woogie, a la Jools Holland. Get into a really funky groove with a Soul/Disco/Funk band. Everyone enjoys the Pop Classics of the last five decades. Or you could settle for a traditional Irish-style family ceilidh. The list is endless.

Wedding Favors

Wedding Favors

Few modern weddings manage to avoid the ritual of wedding favors. Traditionally, wedding favors are usually placed on the table, in front of every guest, although this idea seems to have diminished, in recent years.
Choices of Wedding Favors
Trying to select a small gift that is going to appeal to the entire wedding party is tricky, to say the least. Arguably it is impossible! However, there are ways to avoid giving inappropriate wedding favors, while also keeping the budget in check.
Why not simply create a selection of sweets and chocolates that can be placed in the center of the table for all to pick at. This is a great way of allowing people to choose their own gifts, without having to worry about issues of taste.
With a small, intimate party, it is actually possible to select gifts, individually. This is only really possible when the party is very small; normally a maximum of thirty is appropriate for these types of wedding favors. If you take this approach, be certain that position the wedding favors correctly and inline with the table settings or you might just find that your carefully selected wedding favors end up in the wrong hands!
Edibles are always a good choice when it comes to wedding favors as many people are getting quite hungry after the ceremony and photographs. Sugared almonds are considered to be the traditional wedding favors. However, the fact of the matter is that not many people actually enjoy sugared almonds, so it may be better to consider an alternative. Why not use chocolates or sweets instead? If you are in a warm climate chocolates will need to be stored in a refrigerator until the last minute, so make sure that you have this facility.
Alternatives to Wedding Favors
Moving away from the more traditional types of wedding favors, you may wish to consider a more modern and innovative approach. By daring to be different, not only can you save yourself some money, but you are also more likely to make a lasting impression on your guests.
Some different ideas for wedding favors include a lottery card each, but think about how you would react if someone wins big-time on the ticket that you have bought! If this thought does not appeal, then consider having a raffle where everyone is given a ticket and there is a range of prizes available.
Another great idea could be to place a bowl of goodies such as chocolates sweets and alcohol miniatures, in the center of the table, allowing a bit of potluck for the guests. If you have a bit more time on your hands, you could wrap the wedding favors up and allow guests to select their own and take a chance on the outcome.
One of the key things to remember with wedding favors is that you want to generate discussion. When guests arrive at a wedding reception, they are often slightly shy or timid and having a game involving wedding favors will do wonders to break the ice!

Wedding Candles Making Your Big Day Extra Special

Wedding Candles Making Your Big Day Extra Special

The flowers, the dresses, the costumes, the wedding candles, the party and all the other must-haves of a successful wedding can be quite stressful for those getting married. The color of the wedding candles has to match the general one used in decorations, and they all have to be perfect. The right candles need to be chosen beforehand to make sure that they are everything you hoped for.

Let’s have a look at the details you have to take care of when you purchase the wedding candles. First of all we need to understand their role in the ceremony and the afterwards party. Thus, you’ll know what to really ask for.

Wedding candles double meaning

What’s the role of the wedding candles in the religious ceremony? Regardless of the religion, candles are ever-present in the matrimony rites of all cultures. They symbolize the divine essence in the sacred union performed by the priest, they are the light and love that bind two people together for a life time. This is why it is so important that wedding candles be held by two very close such as friends and family, who act the roles of witnesses and light bearers within the ceremony.

The other meaning wedding candles have is the decoration one. Chosen in a variety of shapes and sizes they create a very intimate and beautiful atmosphere during the ritual and afterwards. This is the reason why so many people choose to decorate the tables at the wedding party with both flowers and candles.

Candles may not be used to bring light in our homes anymore, by they’re surely bringing joy and comfort in our hearts. Very often candle table decorations go from the most complex to the simple and elegant ones. There is usually a wedding planner that takes care of such details.

How to choose the best wedding candles

Wedding candles are part of the perfect day you dream of, that’s why it is so important that you see it come true. Consulting candle catalogues is the way to find the model that suits your idea of ceremonial candles. However, there are some general style rules it’s best not to ignore. For instance, too large candles can be quite uncomfortable for bearers, medium-sized are recommended.

Then, if you decide to buy some more sophisticated or complexly decorated ones, you won’t be able to add any other ornaments such as flowers or ribbons. It’s bad taste! Last but not least, candles should look good in the rest of the picture, so plan and check in advance. Good luck!

Is a Destination Wedding Right for You?

Is a Destination Wedding Right for You?

What exactly does ‘destination wedding’ mean? Well, this is the term used for a wedding which takes place in a desired location which is away from the bride and grooms’ home town. The wedding ceremony and reception is held in a location where everyone (including all guests) has to travel to get to the wedding.

Choosing a destination for your wedding is probably the most important wedding planning decision you will have to make. After all, the location of your wedding will dictate many factors of your wedding, including the cost. For example, many people are now opting for a more tropical and exotic location to get married, and if you have to travel to the other side of the world to get to your dream wedding destination, then that can be pretty expensive.

Destination weddings are certainly growing in popularity. While there are still many couples who go down the traditional route of getting married in a church followed by a reception in a banquet hall, there is no doubt that a destination wedding is a new and upcoming trend with couples wanting to tie the knot.

Why are destination weddings so popular?

Well, one good reason is that they mean a vacation for everyone involved in the wedding and not just a honeymoon for the bride and groom. Some people keep it small and quiet with just immediate family and friends, while other couples have a huge wedding party traveling with them – it all depends on what you want. A destination wedding is also popular with people getting married for the second or even third time. They don’t want all the fuss and formality of a traditional marriage, they simply want to ‘get away’ and get married.

Things to consider when planning a destination wedding:

• If wanting a tropical wedding, remember that it will be very hot and you and your partner could feel very uncomfortable in your wedding attire
• Do you want only close family/friends to come with you, or a larger wedding party?
• Can all of your guests afford the travelling expenses?
• Can you afford to pay for your guests to travel?
• Do you want to hold a second reception back home for friends and family that couldn’t travel with you?
• Is privacy important to you? You will be surrounded by your guests for the whole duration of your wedding / honeymoon.

Remember that you will be inviting the guests to travel with you. Most likely, the guests will be paying their own way and are essentially planning their entire vacation around your wedding. Therefore, you will have to give considerable thought in what both you and your guests want to do before and after the wedding.

In summary, destination weddings are becoming very popular and because of this there are many travel agents who now specialize in these types of weddings. Make a decision on how large you want your traveling party to be and if your guests can afford it. Make sure to have some kind of understanding with your guests if you want a few days of privacy.

Eight Important Basics to Planning a Bridal Shower

Eight Important Basics to Planning a Bridal Shower

Planning a bridal shower can be one of the most exciting activities you have ever experienced. There is so much joy associated with bridal shower. Everyone is pleased to bring gifts that the bride is excited to see as a sign of the start of her new life. Even though getting ready can be an exciting time, it can also be a very stressful time. There are so many things that you must consider when you are planning your bridal shower.

One of the most important things to first consider is the guest list. You should invite anywhere from five to twenty people. If you invite more than twenty, you risk overwhelming the bride and the guests, as you want it to be a rather intimate affair. When you make your guest list, be sure to consult the bride as to whom she wishes to have at her wedding shower. Female family members of both sides of the wedding party should certainly be at the top of your guest list. You will also want to include the bride’s closest friends, and, of course, the wedding party. Be sure that everyone who is invited to the wedding shower is also on the invitation list to the wedding to avoid any hurt feelings.

The second important thing to think about is the invitations. The invitations you choose can have any look or feel that you like. If you wish to have a themed shower, send out invitations that match your theme. For example, if you plan to have a beach party shower, send out invitations that have the look of a beach party. If you are not having a themed shower, you might want to go with something that looks like the bride’s wedding invitations. Check with the printer of her wedding invitations, as he or she might be able to cut you a deal if the bride’s invitation order was big enough. Whatever type of invitation you go with, be sure to include the guest of honor’s name, the time, date, and location of the invitation, the hostess’ name and phone number, an RSVP deadline (about two weeks before the shower is sufficient), and the shower theme. If you wish, include a map of how to reach the location. You might also think about including where the couple has registered and the colors of their future home. Send the invitations out about one month in advance of the wedding shower.

Once you’ve sent out the invitations, it is time to start planning your party. You will want to start with some light appetizers for your party guests. Try to provide a variety of foods, and try to avoid foods that guests might be allergic to. If you intend to serve highly allergenic foods like peanuts, be sure to keep them well away from the other foods you will serve. Don’t forget to think about drinks as well. Serve a wide variety, and be sure to include healthy drinks like water and fruit juice. If you also intend to serve cake, try to make it fit with the theme of your party.

Once you’ve considered the food, you are ready to start thinking about party games. You will want to play two to four games during your bridal shower. These games can serve as ice breakers if you wish. One fun game is to issue a list of common purse items. Whoever has the most items in their purse from your list wins. Another great game is a simple wedding word scramble. Whoever deciphers the most words in the time allotted is the winner.

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Be sure to include time in your shower for everyone to introduce themselves and their relationship to the bride. Remember that several of your guests may have a connection to no one but the bride, so it is important to help them get involved with the other shower attendees.

A sixth thing to consider when you are planning a bridal shower is party favors for all of the guests. While this tends to be a regional idea, offering party favors for each guest is a nice touch. You can do something as simple as a small box of candy or a scented candle. Try to offer party favors that reflect the theme of your shower, if you have one.

An additional thing to think about when you are planning is the decorative scheme. If you are having a themed shower, you probably already have some ideas in mind for decorations. If you are having a fairly general themed bridal shower, you need to think about table linens and centerpieces at the very least.

One final thing you must consider when you are planning a bridal shower is planning for after the shower. Buying some thank you notes for the bride to send that match the invitations is a nice touch. Furthermore, giving the bride a preprinted list of guests with up-to-date address information can also be quite helpful.

Planning a bridal shower is an intensive procedure, but getting the right combination of events will lead to a happy memory.

I hope that reading the above information was both enjoyable and educational for you. Your learning process should be ongoing–the more you understand about bridal showers, the more you will be able to share with others.